Expectations
Most things in live is driven by expectation.
- We are expected to go to school
- Expected to graduate
- Excepted to get a good job
- Expected to get married
- Expected to have kids
- Expected to provide for the family
- Expected to kick the bucket
The standard chronology of events is the blueprint of everyone’s lives. I don’t mind the blueprint what gets to me is the details of live when expectation is included and its totally unnecessary.
How we expect our partner to behave in a certain way, How we are expected to behave with your boss around you, How you are expected to earn lots of money.
Necessary? I don’t think so at all!
In this day of age, individuals should be allowed to be be themselves. Yes we all have responsibilities to deliver certain things but expecting things adds pressure and kills creativity. Why do we have such expectations with friends, family or even colleagues?
What if we did push them all to corners and expect things of them when we can go on with our lives doing the best for ourselves and them while we can. Let nature take its course. People need to be re-affirmed time and time again of that value that they bring to the plate and tweaking the shortcomings very strategically. Morale is everything in my view, one who’s morale is healthy will perform better than one who is under tremendous stress and mountains of expectation put on their head to deliver.
With expectations comes very high chances of disappointment which we don’t need.
Purely my thoughts, its your right to agree or disagree and i would be very interested to hear what you think? …
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