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Note To Self 8

Friday, September 3rd, 2010

Respect Respect pinned on noticeboard

 

We easily take this value for granted. How many times have you cursed a Bangladeshi? or a Indonesian? How many times have you heard your boss comparing you to a admin clerk when he/she is not happy with your work? 

Not good! I make the mistake all the time (much less now) by disrespecting people. Everyone is in a particular place for a reason. You cant insult the guy building houses, if he doesnt are you going too? You cant insult the guy who makes sure your toilet papers are loaded and you have a clean place to answer to nature’s call, are you going to do it?

Its a extremely simple act and its a important one. Respect every single person you come across irrespective of their social standing, qualification or job. If you are a boss, it does mean you are better than your staff as a human being. If we respect each other it will work out nicely..

Think about it, i sure am

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Note To Self 6

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

Listen

listen

I was told once :

“there is a reason why we have 2 ears and just one mouth”

Listening is something that is extremely hard to do. These days, everyone has got so much to say simply because of the kind of access to information everyone has ideas based on that or simply want to convey what they “heard”. There is listening and there is listening.

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Note to Self 5

Friday, August 13th, 2010

Set Your Self Up

Have you ever found your self ranting about how time flies? You celebrate New years, before you know it its your birthday and then its mid year, festivals and then you are getting ready to celebrate new years again. Yes, time does fly. Why? I think we have more and more things that keep us occupied that you loose track of time and hence feel that time flies.

Prepare 

This year for i tried something new, i decided to set my self up for things that i can benefit from in the future if not now. For instance, if there was that course that you always wanted to do but never got to it, this is the time to get to that. The fact that time flies, you wont even realize how fact you will complete it. Invest in yourself and invest wisely.

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Monday, August 9th, 2010

Point of View

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I saw a tweet from Deepak Chopra a few days ago and it rang some bells in my head. Its something that has been running in my head for a while. Often we find politicians shouting about how things should be done and accuses others of not being “normal” just because others don’t do it the way they would.

I always believed that people are entitled to look at things in their own point of view. They should be allowed to think, rationalize and come up with conclusions of their own. As a brand,politician,boss,friend or even family for me our role is to put out information for one to decipher the information and come up with their own conclusions.

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Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

Expectations

expectations

Most things in live is driven by expectation.

  • We are expected to go to school
  • Expected to graduate
  • Excepted to get a good job
  • Expected to get married
  • Expected to have kids
  • Expected to provide for the family
  • Expected to kick the bucket

The standard chronology of events is the blueprint of everyone’s lives. I don’t mind the blueprint what gets to me is the details of live when expectation is included and its totally unnecessary.

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